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Wasatch Adoptions
1140 36th Street #204
Ogden, UT 84403

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Sunday July 5- Shamian Island

We had breakfast in the executive lounge. It was pretty great, they had a nice spread every day with a variety of options. Paul used the espresso maker to make us coffees every day, and oh how we needed them. The girls were very fond of the yogurt (we basically lived on it). We were able to pick up a couple of bottled waters for the day thankfully, that was so handy. You could have omelets made to order and the fruit was always fresh and ripe. They had a rotating menu and of the executive lounges at Marriott it probably had the biggest variety. They usually had congee or oatmeal (An Izzy fave), fried noodles, sauteed vegetables, they had a pastry bar, multiple coffee machines, you could get tea as well. They had cereals and several juices, pancakes, waffles or french toast every day. The executive lounge privileges are a MUST with adoption. You don’t need to worry about fixing breakfast or hauling everyone to a restaurant in town. You head to the floor, have breakfast and you are set. The food is always pretty good and it is so easy. Once we got home I missed it terribly.

We met the other family in the lobby and all piled into the van, we were dropped off and told to meet back in front of the Victory Hotel. We went to the statues to have pictures taken. The Island is beautiful. We walked up and down the tree lined avenues looking at historical buildings, many restored to good condition. This territory was originally divided and given to the UK and France. You can really see the European influence in the architecture. Many of the trees on the island are over 200 years old. Years ago this island was known for the foreigners who worked and lived there and the White Swan Hotel where it seemed all adoptive families stayed an took the now iconic pictures of the children on that famous red couch. The White Swan has been remolded and is now catering to businessmen and not to adoptive families. The hotel was closed when we were there and I was sorry about that because I had wanted to see it. I wanted the red couch picture but I am pretty sure that couch is long gone. Also gone are the Mattel Going Home barbies that the White Swan left in the adoptive families hotel rooms. How sad. I have seen the dolls and would love to have one.

After the pictures we split up to shop for a little while, we bought several silk outfits and a pair of pink silk shoes for each girl, we bought several silk table runners, a jade ship for Paul to take to work, a small wooden folding screen decorated with a scene painted on it, As we headed further down the boulevard we found the place with the cute little squeaky shoes and bought several pairs for each girl. We met up with the other family here, we were all buying the squeaky shoes.  While we waited in front of the shop a couple of girls came up and wanted their picture taken with the little boy from the other family. He was probably 10 or 11 and really embarrassed but dad said ok. Then a young guy wandered up and wanted his picture taken with me (uh ok..) I did it of course but how odd. I should have taken his picture. LOL

We all walked down the sidewalk to find a place to eat, the first place was a well known seafood place but we decided it would be hard to locate something everyone would eat, we continued on and ate at Lucy’s, a restaurant popular with expats, the food was okay but not great.

After lunch we walked back to the Victory hotel to meet our guide and driver. Gabby had a huge blowout and we had to run into The Victory and use the bathroom to change her into an alternate outfit before getting into the van and heading back to the mainland and the China Hotel.  I love Shamian Island and would have loved to spend more time there, it was much too short.

We put the kids down to nap and then took a stroll in the hotel to get Starbucks and then to check out the tiny 7-11 on the side of the hotel. We grabbed a few snacks at both the 7-11 and the little supply store in the hotel.  It was crazy windy that day.

We played in the room, bathed the girls, got take out from McDonalds. Only this time Paul ran into a local “business” gal standing at the bottom of the China Hotel stairs during his food run.


Gabby watching a cartoon with daddy.

We gave the kids a bath and put them to bed. At night I washed the ExOfficio underwear in the sink using tiny packets of Tide and hung them to dry. This was by far my favorite purchase. These undies were light airy and breathable in the super hot sweaty days in China. In normal undies you would be marinating in sweat all day. I would sure look for more ExOfficio clothing for our next adoption trip. They were awesome! Also at night before bed I would wash the bottles and pre-fill them with powder, wash any of the little take and toss bowls and utensils we had used and wash the sippy cups and re-stock the diaper bag and snack cups so we were ready to go the next day.  We usually watched some show before falling dead asleep..


Saturday July 4 – Medical Exam

We ordered room service that first morning because we had not figured out the executive lounge yet. We horked breakfast down and hurried to get ourselves dressed so we could meet our guide and another family from our agency in the lobby.

We had been alerted that there was another family from our agency also in GZ at the same time. They turned out to be this perfect family, they brought two of their kids along to adopt another little boy (they were always helpful with the new brother). It was hotter than Hades and mom always looked like she just stepped off a magazine cover, always had makeup on and her hair was done (I on the other hand called it a good day if I had pants on). The kids were always clean and dressed nicely. Plus they were just a nice family. Dad was a scream. They had this whole thing down pat while we were a traveling circus by comparison. I think the agency only let us know because in GZ you share a guide with other families from your agency. I had no idea that was how it would work but it was nice for us.. Probably not as great for them.

Our baby bag weighed 80 pounds (ok not really but close) and we were constantly hunting for snacks or some other thing in the depths of that damned bag.

We all assembled in the lobby and realized this family had been on our flight from Seattle to Beijing. All of us piled into the van.. all 11 of us in the van (this includes the driver and our guide) which was our traveling standard for the week.

We arrived at the medical clinic and had visa photos taken of the kids in the lobby. We went upstairs and entered a room with chairs in rows and tons of adoptive families and several locals. Our guide took all of our paperwork to the front desk and a while later we were called back one child at a time to have the kids weighed, measured, visually inspected, TB test done and the records were skimmed over. They checked the child’s picture against the child you presented for the exam.

I went in with Gabby. She had to be naked at one point and LOST HER MIND. Gabby had this huge bulge at the top of her diaper area that had not been there before. I said WHAT is that? The “Doctor” said “No worry it’s just a fibroid”. WHAT? So at this point everyone reading this knows what it is but we had been operating on very little sleep (night terrors etc) and we were all sick (Izzy came to us sick), but I KNEW it was no fibroid. I was pretty sure the janitor just put a pair of scrubs on and examined our daughter. My mind was racing about this HUGE lump Gabby had sprouted.

Izzy went in with Paul and was easy peasy, no crying, no theatrics.

Then there was a room at the end that parents could not go in and it was a blood draw apparently (for the TB test). Gabby was a mess for that too. It took three people to hold her down. We were all glad to get back in the van.

We stopped at a store on the way back to the hotel, it took us a lot longer than the other family of course. We needed formula and diapers, yogurt, juice, snacks, fruit etc. I could think of nothing else but this huge lump Gabby had.

We got back to the hotel and spoke to our guide about the lump and she told us we had two options: Go to the hospital and pay a few bucks but have to wait hours to be seen or go to the clinic and pay $250 be seen right away by an English speaking doctor. We went to the clinic.

Lily came with us and our driver dropped us at the clinic (this was above and beyond his duties for sure). We told the doctor what had happened at the medical appointment, he took one look and said “It’s a hernia.” I burst into tears I was so relieved. That poor doctor, I am sure he was just stunned to have this foreigner crying in his office. We had not had a full nights sleep so I was pretty emotional. The most idiotic thing is that I had both a single hernia repair then a triple hernia repair, I should have known what it was but I just did not think of it. I had lots of things going through my head and none of them were that benign.

We took a cab back to the China Hotel, Paul ran down to the McDonalds and a snack for us. The odd thing is that the sundaes were made with a butterscotch flavored ice cream and not vanilla.

Later we walked down to the Starbucks (right in the hotel) and grabbed a coffee. We just meandered around the hotel a little.

For dinner we ordered from Room Service, we bathed the kids and put them to bed. In GZ Gabby sleeps between us and Izzy sleeps in a longer version of the Pack and Play. We got into bed and watched TV for a little bit before crashing out.


Friday July 3 – Fly to Guangzhou

We ate at the buffet and got ourselves ready to go. Packing 4 suitcases and several carry ons for all of us was just nutty.

For whatever reason we ended up getting checked out of the hotel very early by mistake and were stuck in the lobby for close to two hours. It was a nightmare. Thankfully we liked the door man.

Our guide Susie, her son and the driver arrived to take us to the airport. There was a HUGE traffic jam because some yahoo in a big truck was trying to reverse away from the on-ramp.

We get to the airport and Susie comes in to get us checked in. We get our luggage checked in and you wait to see if your name appears on this screen in a certain number of minutes. If it doesn’t, your luggage is ok and you can head on over to security.

We go through security (which is an ordeal in and of itself) and then hunt around for a place to eat lunch. We find a place and draw a crowd of at least twenty onlookers as well as the staff who stood across from us. It was the strangest thing. I now know what all the animals at the zoo feel like.

We were followed by a man all over the airport, after the third or fourth comment about it from Paul I thought that is IT I am going to confront him and get airport security. Thankfully we did not see him again because we do not speak the language and probably would have been arrested. Adopting a child with albinism caused a lot of strange reactions and after a week of this crap I was OVER IT! We still had another week to go.

We get to the gate and have to take a standing bus to the plane. The plane was on the other side of this massive airport and it took forever. When we got there I was pushed off the bus by some jerk that was in a hurry to get on the plane and nearly landed on my face (and on Izzy). Then when you get off the plane you need to haul yourself up the 2.5 flights of stairs to get on to the plane. Carrying a baby in a front pack, a back pack and a stroller was crazy. Hence my recommendation to start hiking in advance of your adoption trip, you will need the stamina. By the time I made it to the top of the stairs I was shaking. I am woefully out of shape. Paul had a front pack, backpack, his cpap and a baby bag that weighed a ton.. I have no idea how he made it up the stairs either.

We get on the plane, and get settled. I have the window, Gabby is between Paul and I and Paul has Izzy on his lap. Gabby went BANANAS when the plane took off of course, but settled down and was pretty good for most of the flight until it was time to land.  A flight attendant helped us off the plane and asked if Gabby was from China and thanked us for taking the girls. That was so sweet and genuine, after the insane negativity over Izzy that woman had no idea how nice it was to hear a positive comment.

We arrive in GZ at 7:10 pm, we collected our bags and they checked our tickets against the bags as we left the baggage claim area. Our guide Lily is this tiny little sweet gal. She was there right on time and just the nicest lady. She proceeded to push our HUGE luggage cart that probably weighed twice what she did. We pass through a throng of people outside the airport, it is very hot for being so late in the evening. Taxi drivers were offering us rides all the way to the air conditioned (thank you!) van and our driver.

We get to the China Hotel and get checked in and taken to our room. We ordered room service, bathed the kids, did bottles and went to bed! What an exhausting day!





Thursday July 2 – Chengdu Family Day

The next morning we again ate at the buffet and our family had multiplied overnight so instead of just one screaming fussy baby we had two. I’m sure we were a delight to all who were forced to eat in that dining room.

We have a system. I go get the girls food and Paul gets them set up and gives them cheerios/puffs, when I get back he runs to grab us coffee and food while I work on feeding the restless natives. It is a circus and probably funny to watch. When Paul gets back we divide and conquer and try to feed/cajole the kids into eating and not screaming while trying to sip and eat ourselves. Izzy was by far the more restless of the two and after he ate Paul took Izzy to the far side of the dining hall and walked her around. She was delighted and stopped her tirade.

After breakfast we went to Civil affairs to sign for Gabby.  We had asked our guide if she and the driver wanted to go to lunch someplace. She did not and unceremoniously dumped us back at the hotel. Having few options we ate at the Coffee/Waffle house place next door. Maan Coffee. We picked a few things hoping to get the kids to snack on something.

We did some internet stuff and took a walk down the river. It was hot out and the kids were glad to get out of the room for a bit. We skyped with family back home. We skyped with Grandma Wanda and with big brothers Ethan and Carl.

Dinner we ordered from the buffet in the hotel again. We did a load of laundry in the Washer/Dryer combo and it took hours and hours to dry. HA!

After bathing the girls they had bottles and went to bed and I packed and re-packed all of our crap.

Izzy in Crib in Chengdu



Wednesday July 1- Our Spicy Girl

We got up, gave Izzy a bottle, got dressed and went to the breakfast buffet. Izzy screamed her head off of course, because why not? I spent the entire meal bouncing her in the carrier trying to eat, sip coffee and feed her. She was not having it. Yes we were THAT family.

We met Guide Susie in the lobby and were loaded into the van, Izzy was in Paul’s Ergo and we headed to the Civil Affairs office which was about half an hour away from our hotel. Of course the office was up several flights of stairs.

When I rounded the corner I see Gabby down on the other side of the room in an off white princess dress with a little sweater. A man and 4 ladies were with her. The man turned out to be the director and the ladies were all nannies from the orphanage. They had made the 4 hour trip the night before and stayed 2 nights to meet us, finalize the adoption and say goodbye to our pint sized dynamo with the huge personality. Paul told me later that the director watched me like a hawk through the entire meeting with Gabby. He probably wanted to be sure we were going to take good care of her.

They gifted us with a 7 foot tapestry and sent Gabby home with a new suitcase, new clothing, 1 pair of sandals, 1 pair of sneakers, a quilt, a stuffed panda, a pink stroller, linen jammies, bowl and spoon, and A CHOP with her Chinese name. Absolutely amazing because generally you are lucky to get a diaper and formula. Gabby was very well loved in her orphanage.


We have our girl!

After the appointment we went to Walmart to pick up a few things to get us through the next few days. We grabbed a TON of yogurt, formula, baby pouches, snacks, diapers, wipes, a bath basin, and a beach towel. Once again we were dumped off and left by our guide. We went to the restaurant next door to the hotel for lunch. We got a Mango Smoothie and I think little miss Gabby horked the entire thing down (much to Dad’s dismay). It was at least 16 ounces.

The kids played in the room and dinged around. For dinner we ordered from the hotel kitchen and the food was fabulous. We loved this spicy beef and rice dish. The surprise was however that the rice looked as if it was just plain steamed white rice and it was not.. It was hell rice. It was super spicy hot. What invisible spice had they cooked this with? I had no clue. The food was good but it was really HOT. This did nothing to stop us from ordering more the next night.

We bathed the girls separately in the little wash basin and got them ready for bed, watched Chinese cartoons and relaxed. We had two cribs in our bedroom and we could still get around! I loved that room. The kitchen was super convenient and I really missed it when we left.


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Oct 10 Saw "Elsa's" profile for the first time

Dec 1 Saw Paisley's little face and asked for her file

Dec 15th Got files for Paisley and another girl from agency

Dec 16th Read files and called to find IA doctor

Dec 17th I spent all day on e-mail and the phone with IA doctor

Dec 19th we sent a check for $600 and official application to the Agency

Dec 22nd we got an e-mail we had been approved by the Agency

Dec 22nd I wrote a Letter of Intent for the CCCWA that we intend to adopt Zou Bing Jie

Dec 23 we finished the Agency contracts and paid $140 to have 14 signatures notarized (OMG!)

Dec 26 Sent contracts and $3500 International program fee to Agency - Lucky for us Zou Bing Jie has already been locked to us

Dec 27-Jan 5 CCCWA will be closed so NOTHING will happen.

Jan 4 H.S Agency Suspended

Jan 8 Received P.A. from China

Jan 19 Found Fu Chen You on Shared File

Jan 21 Wrote LOI for Fu Chen You

Jan 31 Home Study Visit and Paid $1550

Feb 2 Received P.A. for Fu Chen You

Feb 4 Home Study Visit

Feb 22 Home Study Finished by SW

Feb 25 Home Study Approved by Agency

Mar 6 Picked up Home Study

Mar 6 Sent I800A

Mar 9 USCIS Received i-800a via Fed Ex

Mar 11 Official USCIS notice I-800a Received

Mar 24 Finally have all Fingerprint cards

Mar 25 Did a walk in at USCIS Biometrics

Mar 25 USCIS approved our Expedite

Mar 25 Received USCIS RFE

Apr 3 I800A Approved

Apr 3 I797 Received Via E-mai

Apr 4 I797's Notarized

Apr 6 I797's State Authenticated

Apr 8 Dossier to Embassy

Apr 23 Dossier to China

Apr 27 Dossier arrived at CCCWA

May 4 I-800 Sent

May 6 Found out about input issue & incorrect name on PA

May 8 Input issue supposedly corrected

May 13 LID (Log In Date)

May 26 Soft LOA

May 28 Hard LOA

June 1 USCIS sends Pkt to NVC

June 5 Receive PDF with GUZ and Invoice #'s

June 8 Article 5 Drop Off

June 9 Article 5 Pick Up and mailed to CCCWA

June 19 Soft Travel Approval

June 19 Recieved Consulate Appointment

June 24 TRAVEL to Beijing

June 28 Fly to Nanjing

June 29 Isabella Gotcha

June 30 Sign for Izzy

June 30 Fly to Chengdu

July 1 Gabriella Gotcha

July 2 Sign for Gabby

July 3 Fly to Guangzhou

July 7 Consulate Appointment

July 9 Van to Hong Kong

July 10 Fly Home