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Tax Deductible!!

Tax-deductible donations can be made directly to our agency! Just indicate “STALEY FAMILY ADOPTION” in the memo and mail to:

Wasatch Adoptions
1140 36th Street #204
Ogden, UT 84403

Thank you for helping to bring our little angels HOME!

Help us Adopt!!

We are looking to adopt two little girls who are special needs from China. Please help us raise money to cover the expensive costs or donate to support us to do various things. Keep up to date here: http://bissynut.com/fundraiser Are you thinking why so much??!! More information here. http://bissynut.com/adoption-expenses

Asian week recipes – Low Carb

This week I have done a round of Asian inspired meals and it worked out perfectly.  I know we will need to incorporate more familiar food for the girls when they arrive so I better get working on my recipes.

Chicken fried cauliflower rice

Sunday I made three pounds of Asian Style Pork Meatballs. I did not brown them in the pan, I did bake them in the oven until they were done. I like things quick and dirty, I don’t have time for finesse.  I served those with Chicken fried “rice” (cauliflower rice). I made a large batch (I needed lunches for Paul, Carl and Bethany, plus I can use it in a second dinner).

The next night I served Honey Soy Asian Beef over some of the left over Chicken fried “rice” from the night before. That one was easy because all I had to do was slap it in the crockpot toss the sauce on and forget it. I would advise not cooking it for the entire 8 hours.. probably more like low for 6. Then check the temperature. I think ours would have been done at that time. I did use real honey, you can use the low carb version if you so choose.

The next night I used up the rest of the Asian Style Pork Meatballs in Potsticker Meatball Asian Noodle Soup. That was also delicious. I love I Breathe I’m Hungry blog anyway. That soup was really good. I wish I had taken pictures of it. I know.. fail. I missed the soup, the meatballs and the beef. In my defense the beef was NOT pretty, it tasted good but it was not winning any beauty contest.

Pork Lo Mein

At the same time I made Pork Lo Mein and as soon as it was done I put it in a baking dish and slapped it into the fridge for tonight’s dinner.  I used a good 2 pounds of pork for it and 2 packages of the Pasta Zero noodles. All the meals I’ve made (all for the first time this week) got good marks from everyone.  My favorite was the Pork Lo Mein. DELICIOUS!!

I have put links to the Pinterest pins with the recipes.

 

 

Disaster!

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What a total disaster! We had a plan to fund our adoption, we also had a back up plan. Plan A and Plan B blew up, we moved on to Plan C (okay so it was not a plan until Plan B exploded, but at least we had an option) and decided to re-finance the house. We could get the rest of the cash out and complete the adoption. Not ideal but we are working with an expedited timeline.

Our guy orders the VA appraisal and the morning of the appraisal this guy shows up. He just radiates jackass. The appraiser is BARELY civil, he doesn’t like the house, the neighborhood, our dogs (who were penned in the guest room), he was not a fan of adoption or kids (not sure). He missed an entire room of the house, he was just a jerk.

Paul and I both had a bad feeling about the entire ordeal. Fast forward and the appraisal came back more than 30K LESS than it had just a couple months ago, we appealed the appraisal with the VA and won that first part. We were good and they would enter the amount from the last appraisal. Big Sigh.

What we did not know is that all of the appeals have to go through a “VA desk review” with an auditor. A desk review is exactly like it sounds. Some paper pusher in another state decides if this is ok or not. We got a call Friday morning (we had an appointment to sign that evening) that the “desk review” went badly and the paper pusher decided against us because no comps in our area have sold in the last three months. Newsflash there are NO COMPS for this house in the area. ZERO, ZIP, NADA… Our house is overbuilt for the area, I will concede that point. EVERYONE knows the house because it is the only 2 story with pillars in the entire area. It has by far the most square footage and the most design detail. We ended up only getting half of the money we need to complete the adoption. We are freaking out. We thought we were good having a Plan A and a Plan B… you can NEVER have enough back up plans.

We got a call (just before we heard about the desk review) that our application for a grant was going to be put before the board. So keep your fingers crossed that grant works out.  We paid for the Resources for Adoption toolkit and ended up only qualifying for a couple of grants. This is a great resource but we just did not fall into one of the bigger more popular grant groups.

For those of you just starting to think about adoption… seriously nail it down as best you can before you start. Have a back up plan (or 3- JUST IN CASE). The stress is crazy.

If you are in the Seattle/Tacoma area we do have several nice items available:

New GE Advantium Oven $400 (Paid $650), New in Box Lime Bumbo with Playtable $35 (Paid $49), and a New Fisher Price SnugaMonkey Swing $125 (Paid $159). We also have a hospital bed $100, recumbent exercise bike $25.

Unexpected Surprise

Isabella May5

Yesterday I had a great unexpected surprise in my in-box. A mama was recently in Nanjing and spent a good deal of time with our little Isabella. This is Izzy with a social worker. This gal adored Isabella and spent a good deal of time with her.. in the process she took several pictures! When this mama arrived back home she hunted us down on Reece’s Rainbow and left me a comment on my blog!!!  How awesome is that?!?!  I am so delighted to get to see our little baby girl, and in some of the pictures she was clapping. Apparently little Miss Isabella is an orphanage favorite. I’m so relieved. I worried she was just sitting in her crib for hours by herself but this clearly is not the case! I can’t wait to meet our baby girl!

Thank you to one determined and thoughtful mama for sharing these with me!!

Princess Gabriella

I opened my e-mail this morning to these!! I am so excited because we were not expecting anything. Look at her sweet little face!

I called our gal at the agency this morning and told her to mail out our I800 today. I have already spoken with our USCIS officer and I know we will be issued an RFE but this is ok,you have 45 days after one is issued and that isn’t counting the lock box time we need to wait to even get our I800 seen (so about 59 days) to get our LOA for the girls and get it over to our USCIS officer. As long as I keep her in the loop it should be fine.

The gal at the agency gave me a sample timeline, how it would look pick up days, paperwork days and what they have come up with is OUTSTANDING. It isn’t official so I am not going to jinx myself and post it. If this happens as the sample suggests is will be AMAZING and due to a lot of coordination between both orphanages, the provinces, CCCWA and the USCIS. So keep your fingers crossed!

We are still waiting for LID notification, this is sort of a landmark more than anything else. LID just means your dossier has been logged into the system. There are other landmarks along the way as well like OOT (Out of Translation) etc.. but for the moment we are concerned with LID. Unfortunately our agency gal had been unable to log onto the CCCWA system yet today, aarrgghh figures.

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ADOPTION TIMELINE

Oct 10 Saw "Elsa's" profile for the first time

Dec 1 Saw Paisley's little face and asked for her file

Dec 15th Got files for Paisley and another girl from agency

Dec 16th Read files and called to find IA doctor

Dec 17th I spent all day on e-mail and the phone with IA doctor

Dec 19th we sent a check for $600 and official application to the Agency

Dec 22nd we got an e-mail we had been approved by the Agency

Dec 22nd I wrote a Letter of Intent for the CCCWA that we intend to adopt Zou Bing Jie

Dec 23 we finished the Agency contracts and paid $140 to have 14 signatures notarized (OMG!)

Dec 26 Sent contracts and $3500 International program fee to Agency - Lucky for us Zou Bing Jie has already been locked to us

Dec 27-Jan 5 CCCWA will be closed so NOTHING will happen.

Jan 4 H.S Agency Suspended

Jan 8 Received P.A. from China

Jan 19 Found Fu Chen You on Shared File

Jan 21 Wrote LOI for Fu Chen You

Jan 31 Home Study Visit and Paid $1550

Feb 2 Received P.A. for Fu Chen You

Feb 4 Home Study Visit

Feb 22 Home Study Finished by SW

Feb 25 Home Study Approved by Agency

Mar 6 Picked up Home Study

Mar 6 Sent I800A

Mar 9 USCIS Received i-800a via Fed Ex

Mar 11 Official USCIS notice I-800a Received

Mar 24 Finally have all Fingerprint cards

Mar 25 Did a walk in at USCIS Biometrics

Mar 25 USCIS approved our Expedite

Mar 25 Received USCIS RFE

Apr 3 I800A Approved

Apr 3 I797 Received Via E-mai

Apr 4 I797's Notarized

Apr 6 I797's State Authenticated

Apr 8 Dossier to Embassy

Apr 23 Dossier to China

Apr 27 Dossier arrived at CCCWA

May 4 I-800 Sent

May 6 Found out about input issue & incorrect name on PA

May 8 Input issue supposedly corrected

May 13 LID (Log In Date)